By Karen Henderson
They are coming out of the woodwork—politicians, ex-politicians, lawyers, doctors, academics, citizens—exclaiming, even raging about the deplorable conditions now exposed in our care homes.
Let’s back up. Twenty years ago, my father lived in a care home; since I could not be there for hours every day, I was forced to hire private caregivers to ensure my father was fed, bathed and properly cared for. I saw abuse, I saw unacceptable food, I provided the special care that dementia demands. I didn’t blame the staff; they were doing their best, most of them with great compassion.
Twenty years ago.
Fate and caregiver guilt have impelled me to continue to speak, educate and write about the unacceptable conditions that families face as their loved ones require care near the end of life. In 2008 I wrote an article entitled Caregiving: Plus ça change, plus c’est la mème chose. A small part of what I wrote about long term care:
What do we have to do to ensure our long term care facilities provide adequate and safe care for the frail elderly? In May 2005 one poor 86-year old soul in Edmonton felt that she had no choice but to launch a hunger strike to try and demonstrate the inadequate level of care in the facility where she resided. In Toronto it took three murders in the summer of 2003 to get the attention of the courts; the result was that a jury made 85 recommendations in all, saying the provincial government needed to take more seriously, and spend more money on, nursing home care and safety. It remains unclear what recommended changes have been instituted. In 2004, violent residents attacked other residents 864 times in Ontario’s long-term care homes, and attacked staff 264 times, the inquest heard. There are ten times as many attacks today as there were five years ago.
There are many more people like me who have seen the suffering, who have tried to bring about change, who have been deeply affected by the fractured fairy tale we call long term care.
But sadly, the status quo has always been too strong to overcome. Old people in care homes can’t advocate for themselves; their families are too exhausted and discouraged to march. The media has done their best; there have been countless exposés on care home abuse and neglect followed by a momentary public outcry, followed then by life as usual.
We are experiencing the perfect storm fueled by government health care cutbacks, by politicians squabbling among themselves, by short-sighted public health experts, by overflowing hospitals and care homes, by greedy care home owners and by people unable to work in health care under the conditions imposed by the system. The devil could not have planned it better.
So why are Canadians now so shocked at the state of long term care? We shouldn’t be—there have always been too few beds, too little money. PSWs have always been underpaid, and underappreciated. They have always been forced to work in multiple homes to earn some sort of living. We have always known that flu outbreaks happen every year, killing residents every year, including my father. One would think that governments, public health officials and home administrators would have the drill down by now.
Canada and indeed the world can no longer relegate home and long term care to the sidelines. The horrors have been made public. Our hospital and long term care systems have needed a kick in the ass for years; I am just sick that it has taken a lethal, anticipated novel corona virus to expose the despair our most vulnerable citizens live with on a daily basis.
Collectively as a nation we will grieve for years to come, but right now I believe we need to focus on a long, overdue unrelenting rage. We have not yet earned the right to cry; first we must assume the responsibility to act.
One of the first things we must do is plan for our own ageing—by understanding the long term health care system and talking to our families about what we want in our last years. If you don’t make your own choices, others will make them for you.
Other steps you can take include:
- Contact Premiere Doug Ford’s office to demand an inquiry into the state of long term care in Ontario at https://correspondence.premier.gov.on.ca/EN/feedback/default.aspx
- Contact your local MPP and ask for a meeting to state your concerns. Locate your MPP here: https://www.ola.org/en/members/current/contact-information/constituency
- Take your message public—a letter to the editor can be an effective way to get your story or opinion across
- Visit CanAge https://www.canage.ca and subscribe to their newsletter
We are all accountable for the deplorable state of long term care in Ontario that must start changing now.
Are you with me?
Karen Henderson, Founder of the Long Term Care Planning Network, was responsible for the care of her father for 14 years. She is now a specialist in ageing and long term care planning and works with Canadians and their families to help them understand the implications of ageing and the need for care on their personal, professional and financial well-being.